How can I get a former employer to stop bashing my personality?

I was fired 2 weeks ago for not fitting in with the staff. I had worked there for 1 year. I asked the office manager for a letter of recommendation. She informed me that the doctor would write one and they would mail it within a couple days. I never received the letter but assumed they would give a positive review. I have just been informed they are bashing my personality, however my job performance was fine. How can I get her to only answer job performance questions and nothing else. I have had 2 job offers that were retracted after speaking with her.

Asked on November 2, 2011 under Employment Labor Law, Texas

Answers:

SJZ, Member, New York Bar / FreeAdvice Contributing Attorney

Answered 9 years ago | Contributor

If they are making untrue factual statements about you--e.g. you are  manic-depressive when you are not; you are a kleptomaniac, when you are not; you said or did something you did not say or do--then they may be committing defamation and you may be able to sue them for damages and/or make them stop. But if they are merely expressing opinions, no matter how negative--e.g.


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