Thank you for your inquiry.  In New York, maintenance (f/k/a) alimony), is not automatic however it sounds like some maintenance may be appropriate under the circumstances.  It is more likely if she is not taking care of your children.  It depends on the circumstances of each particular case.  Marital property is subject to equitable distribution which does not necessarily mean equal but what is fair.  A starting point is to consider splitting everything.  I am a New York matrimonial attorney.  Give me a call if you would like to discuss the matter.  It would be my pleasure to speak with you aobut the case.   Darren M. Shapiro, Esq. 631-882-3140

NY is an equitable distribution state. As a general practice you will be entitled to half of all the property that was accumulated during the marriage (absent egregious conduct). The court may award you alimony until you are self sufficient. However, you need to be looking for a job and should keep a job search diary.

Regards,

EG

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