Unless you and your husband can reach an agreement regarding property division, child support/custody, spousal support, and any other issues involved, the court will decide those issues. The court will consider many factors in awarding property (house) and spousal support to you, including the length of the marriage, the income of both spouses, the ability for the spouses to find employment, who has primary custody of the children, etc. Regarding child support, most courts follow a state mandated system based on the income of the spouse who would be paying child support, among other issues.