Question Details: I am an adopted child and the only child of my adoptive parents. My mom is the breadwinner in the family. Everything we have (properties) are from my mom's hardwork. My mom suffered a major stroke and bedridden and can't speak nor move. I doubt if she was able to make a legal last will and testament to protect me as the heir of everything. My dad is assuming control of our assets. Problem is...he has senile dementia and can easily be influenced by vultures (his nephews/nieces whom are not in good terms with my mom)about the assets. How do I get control of everything and exercise my rights?
You did not mention what state you are from but generally adoptive children are treated the same as natural born children for inheritance purposes. You need to be concerned with many things here and it may be hard to give any real advice.
First, are you over the age of 18? I am assuming so. Your Mother is not dead. Incapacitated but not dead. So the assets of your parents are still both your parents. What you really have here are two parents who are incapacitated for different reasons. And both need to have a legal representative appointed on their behalf who would be able to make the medical, financial and legal decisions on their behalf. If you are an adult you would be the best candidate to do so. As for your Father in New York you would bring an action under the Mental Hygiene Law to have him declared incompetent and you appointed as his guardian. Same for your Mother but for different reasons. You would then be given the power under the law to administer to the properties in any legal way. There appears to be no other person to validly challenge you on this. You are an only child.
Seek legal help as soon as you can. If your relatives are really the type you say every moment counts. Good luck.

Are you a lawyer?
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