Here's a site that can help get you started:  http://www.nycourts.gov/ip/matrimonial-matters/forms.shtml

However, you should really speak to an attorney on this.  You mention that your husband abandoned "us"; I take that to meant that there are children involved.  If this is the case you really should see a lawyer.  If money is an issue contact legal aid to see if they can help you or at least provide you with the name of someone who might take your case "pro bono"; that means to volunteer to help you for free.  Also, law schools run legal clinics that take these kinds of cases.  See if there is one  nearby to where you live.

Please give me a call as it would be my pleasure to assist you.  If it is an emergency you can call me today at 718-689-0282.

Regards,

Elliot

I am a New York matrimonial attorney.  Perhaps you can file based on cruel and inhuman treatment or constructive abadonment.  In any event I would want to help you get what is best for you.  Give me a call if you want to discuss your situation.  It would be my pleasure to speak with you about the case.  Darren M. Shapiro, Esq. 631-882-3140

I am a New York matrimonial attorney.  Perhaps you can file based on cruel and inhuman treatment or constructive abadonment.  In any event I would want to help you get what is best for you.  Give me a call if you want to discuss your situation.  It would be my pleasure to speak with you about the case.  Darren M. Shapiro, Esq. 631-882-3140