What to do if my ex-wife is refusing to give me my parenting time unless I give her more money outside of child support?
Question Details: What are my options so I don't have to keep paying to see my children?
If your "ex" is refusing you more parenting time with your children unless you provide her with money beyond what you are currently ordered to pay, you should consider the following:
1. write her a letter stating what she has demanded and your suggestion that you and she simply sign a stipulation allowing more time with your children without the payment of any money. Keep a copy of the letter for future use and need;
2. if you do not get an agreement as to the above, you should consult with a family law attorney as to filing a petition with the court seeking increased time with your children.