If there has been no visitation for three years, there is no way that she will get custody right now. It simply isn't going to happen, unless you are doing something monstrous to the child.
It's possible that she could get some visitation, to try and re-establish a relationship with your daughter. It is a parent's right, ordinarily; I suspect that CPS will have something to say about this, one way or the other, and that will probably carry a lot of weight with the court. Courts don't like changing custody, because they understand that it's stressful for the child, even when it is actually necessary.