I am not admitted in Washington.
You can check to see if a will was filed in Probate Court. It would be filed in the county in which his Grandmother was domicilced (lived) at the time of her death. It is a public record and can be viewed by anyone. If no will was filed then an administration would have been done and a Personal Representative appointed. You can view that as well. If you think that there was a will but it was not submitted in to court then your boyfriend has to do some investigating, like contacting the attorney who may have done the Will, etc. The information his Grandmother told him may lead to something.