Although I do not practice law in the State of New York, here are my initial impressions. It sounds like you are being harassed and/or threatened as a result of your filing a police report. If this is true, the person who is doing the threatening will potentially be exposed to additional serious criminal liability for these threats. Therefore, you need to report this to the police/prosecution. I do not see what removing your name from the report will achieve, given the fact that this person already has your name and/or contact information. Good luck.