Question Details: My Husband and I have been together for 13 yrs common law. He has had a recent **** problem and now he has a drinking problem which is putting a strain on our lives. If we get a divorce would i be entitled to half of everything in the home wether i bought it or he bought it?
As long as your state recognizes common law marriage and you have satisfied the requirements for having one, in a divorce you are entitled to whatever assets you would have been entitled to had you been married in a formal marriage ceremony.
Oklahoma case law sets forth a five-part test to establish a common law marriage:
The party asserting a common law marriage must prove all of these elements by clear and convincing evidence. This can be done with evidence such as joint income tax returns, joint financial accounts, jointly held assets, joint credit, medical records, insurance records, introductions and comments to third parties, hotel receipts, and any number of other sources. If clear and convincing evidence is missing as to any part of the above referenced test, the claim of a common law marriage will fail.
Additionally, Oklahoma is a community property state. Therefore, if a valid common law marriage was proven, you would be entitled to 1/2 of all assets acquired during marriage unless your "spouse" could prove that they were separate property or were purchased with separate property funds. However, he would have the burden of proof to show this; the court presumes all assets are community property.

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